Saturday 31 May 2008

The Finger of Suspicion?

First it was these:



Next it was 'Let's take the kids out for the day'



Then it was an invitation for a night out:




Now, if I were a more suspicious type of person, I might be wondering what on earth the Father of This Lot's up to now.


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39 comments:

Akelamalu said...

Mmmmmm, I'd be suspicious too.

Georgina said...

Enjoy the flowers and the day out with the kids. Let him take you out, hopefully for dinner and not the pub quiz. Say thank you for a lovely day and good night. Hard to get makes them try even harder. Pud x

Daryl said...

Suspicion is likely warranted BUT why not just enjoy the 'ride' and know you are in control ... Deb is right .. keep it casual so HE begins to wonder!

:-Daryl

Georgina said...

Jackie, remember the old saying. It escaped me for a while. Treat them MEAN and keep them KEEN. Good luck Pud (x)

Working Mum said...

Enjoy it!

btw did you do a Maria von Trapp and make that ballgown out of the curtains?

Renae said...

Working Mum, I thought that was Scarlett O'Hara! :-)

Congrats on all the attention. You deserve it!

Sarah - Kala said...

Oh, hell! Just have fun, girl!!

Katney said...

Renae, I think they both did it. But do the girls have matching ones?

He knows he has a lot to make up for. Or he thinks he knows what will work...

When he misses you more than he misses Stella, well...?

Pam said...

act like it doesn't matter, stay casual...it keeps HIM guessing. i know this works..i've done this to someone before LOL but of course, that gets them more interested and they start going after YOU hehe

Maggie May said...

Very suspicious but if you are getting something out of it, who cares!

scrappysue said...

i'm a sucker for flowers - keep us posted!

Jennie said...

ooooh. o.O

ChrisB said...

I'd enjoy it first and be suspicious afterwards!

Kit said...

Yep, enjoy every moment and ask questions later...

Anonymous said...

I don't know what he's up to....but can I borrow the gown? I think it's coming back into fashion and I need something glamorous for the teacher/parent evening.

Don't ask. Except to say that there's no-one at The Son's High School who's over 40.

And yes, you do So Deserve It. I hope you enjoy.
But I'm cautious...
I wish you luck, my friend.
x Bella

Carolyn said...

mmmmm. My warning bells are ringing too.

Brad said...

follow your heart love, you deserve the time to pamper yourself

Ally Jay said...

Well you know men, there is probably a good reason to be suspicious but that doesn't mean you can't have fun and enjoy the attention. Who knows maybe it will be you both want the same.

Anonymous said...

Well you can't say he's not a trier!

Go on Stella!

Misslionheart♥

Dusty Spider said...

And, and......flick x

Cath said...

I think being cautious is better than suspicious. You know what he is up to. He's creeping. Let him. You deserve it. Just don't lead him on if there is no hope - you still can have a night out as friends or exes. Or joint parents.

On the other hand, if there is hope, don't be fooled by a few flowers and a night out. As some one else said, he has to get rid of Stella for good first. And prove it. ;0) Your life of course.. not lecturing. Just mho. From some one who really does care...

Anonymous said...

Oh, yeah, he is giving himself away. But those flowers sure are gorgeous -
might as well enjoy it and pretend like you don't notice anything.

Ever see Home Alone? Here's one of our oft-quoted lines:
"Don't get scared now..."
:)

meggie said...

I could take a stab at a guess.

Suzysoo said...

Hi,

I found your blog for a few days ago-possibly via Zoe's ('My Boyfriend Is A Twat') favourite blog links. I've been here every day since!(no, actually, that'll be the middle of the night!) And I've 'visited' Punk Rock Mommy, and Manic Mother of Five, and Family Affairs. I think youre all brilliant! Just wanted to say hi and thanks for just being out there writing about your lives!!

As for the flowers n stuff, just enjoy it. You deserve it!

All the best,

Suzy

Anonymous said...

Are you still there? He hasn't whisked you off to Florida, has he?

I'm looking out of my window for an SOS in the night sky, just in case....but of course there are too many clouds between our shores for me to pick you out. If you're not back by tomorrow I'll be sending out a search party....

x Bella

Sandi McBride said...

might be??? I'd be darned suspicious (and asking what he wanted lol)
Sandi

Beth Cotell said...

hmmmm....I'd be suspicious as well but the flowers are beautiful! Enjoy them if you can!

Liz Harrell said...

Dont think about it, enjoy it! And... it might be the perfect time to bring up a big request. Hit him up while he's trying! :)

Grit said...

clearly all on tenterhooks now...!

Kit said...

WELL?!?!?!??

Maggie May said...

Well......where ARE you?

Katney said...

It's Wednesday. Where is the MOTL? Those must have been SOME flowers! or...

Luanne said...

Hmmm sounds to me like he's looking for a great Fathers day gift.

I'm new too and without pressing the back button I have no idea how I got here.

PS Maria made clothes for the kids, Scarlett a dress for herself.

Luanne

Suburbia said...

So what was he up to then? Have you found out yet?

Kimmie said...

What is he up to?
Are we ever going to see a real picture of you....please?

Kimmie
mama to 6
one homemade and 5 adopted

Pig in the Kitchen said...

oooo, I'm gunning for a happy ending!
Pigx

family affairs said...

Well? Is he behaving himself and working really really hard to get you back? He is clearly around because you're not blogging Lx

Rebekah said...

Enjoy it! :)

A Mother's Place is in the Wrong said...

Catching up .. What was he up to, or was it just fun? I'd like to know. You deserve some fun, anyway. M xx